Hi friends! My name is Holly, I am thirty-something years old & residing in the midwest. I am a sole mother of three minis who are preteen & elementary age. My single motherhood has been complicated. While I have been single four years, I felt like a single mom for much longer. When you are with someone who is intensely needy, codependent, irresponsible, offers no help of any sort, and can’t hold a job to save their life, you’re basically raising another child.

My story is filled with much grief and trauma. As this blog unfolds, you will have the opportunity to hear more. My goal is not to dwell on historical issues, but to focus on present solutions toward growth. It has been a long journey that has brought me here. A lonely road with much confusion, anxiety, and panic. I have come a long way, and learned a lot. Most importantly, I know I was never alone. The entire time I was in God’s hands, under the shadow of his wings. For much of the trek, he carried me, for I could not carry myself.

My burdens have been heavy, from my previous relationship into single motherhood. It feels as if I have carried not only my own burdens, but also those of other women so that they may not have to. My hope is that I can help lighten the load for other sole moms who find themselves in tough spots. I will strive to induce confidence in those who have little. Those who are at the end of their ropes, please know there is a way out of the struggle. It doesn’t have to be so hard. I am aiming to build a community full of connections, advice, and resources so we can thrive together.